Sunday, March 22, 2009

The Home Stretch



Tomorrow is the first of many ‘big’ days to come in the next week. Galya will pick us up in the morning and we will head out to get the adoption decree. The next step is getting the passport. We will try to get some other things done, but we need Elona’s new birth certificate and of course that office is closed on Monday.

Next we will go to the orphanage and pick up Elona. We will bring her her own clothes, shoes and coat. She will change out of her shared orphanage clothes for the last time. I really mean ‘shared’ clothes. Not only did we see Elona wear the same clothes for many days in a row, but we would also see the other girls in the dorms wearing them also. She will gather up the very few belonging that she has and we will leave for the apartment.

We will not be saying good-by to the orphanage for good yet. We will be returning about 3:30 for a ‘going away party’ and for the official hand off with the director and a government representative. Roger and I will be very thankful to be walking up that hill for the last time (it is steeper that it looks in the photo). Elona picked out small gifts at the market for her dorm mates; she did a great job, very thoughtful and stayed on budget. Did I tell you Elona is a list maker, and she has beautiful penmanship. She made a list of the girls she was buying for and crossed them off as she went.
Elona was also very specific with what we should bring for the party, she made me make a list. We are bringing juice, fruit, chocolate and a cake. She would have invited the whole orphanage if we would have let her.

Before I forget, wanted to ask those of you that have adopted, was your child eating everything in site? Since we have been spending more time at the apartment with Elona and offering her things like popcorn, chips and salsa and even trail mix, as soon as she gets to the apartment, she starts indicating casually that she is hungry. And, she will eat about anything we put in front of her, today it was strawberry yogurt and left over macaroni and cheese. It cracks me up.

Anyway……After the party and the official hand off…. We will, all three, be leaving the orphanage for the last time. Before heading home, we are going to the Potato House for Pizza. Then to the apartment for Elona’s first sleep over. Elona is about jumping out of her skin. She is so excited she can’t contain herself. Today on the way to the bus she was singing “Tomorrow, Tomorrow”. The feeling is mutual.

Almost forgot. Friday night our good friend Kevin hosted a party at his apartment . Roger and I, Galya and Kostya, Jaimee and Andy, and Amanda and Jarred attended. Katie, a past co-worker of Kevin's, also joined us. Kevin is a great host. Sangria, cold cuts, bruschetta, shrimp cocktail, and salad. There were also chips and salsa, potato chip with French onion dip and M & M’s that the Americans went crazy for. It was a really fun night with good conversation, a night that will away bring fond memories. Thank you Kevin.

Kelley and Roger



P.S. 2nd photo is the view of a statue of Lenin as we walk to our apartment everyday.

5 comments:

  1. So glad you are almost home. I am so excited, just like when it was Pam and Len. You are right about having them to consult. That has to make it much easier from the stand point that you know what to expect. You still have to walk the hill yourself and for that I pray and applaude you.
    Much love and many positive thoughts going out to you!
    teri

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  2. Hi there! I am so sorry I haven't commented in a few days - I've been following along and being able to talk to you via skype has been great! Finally, today is "the day"! I can't wait to hear your stories of your first few days together as a family.... Thank you for your thoughtful words.... You and Roger have been like family to me through good and bad times - being a part of this has been incredibly special..... Remember freezing our ____ off in Glacier National Park in sleeping in the snow on the 4th of July!?! Now we can make more memories with two little Ukrainian girls and a blond American big brother. How fun! We cannot wait to see you on American soil and welcome you home! Have a great week with your little one - very soon now, this will be a part of your past! Love ya! Pam

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  3. Good luck on your home stretch... we can't wait to see your and meet Miss Elona.
    maggie

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  4. Wow!! How exciting that the time is finally here!! Please tell Elona that Katya's and Andrei's family is so excited for you all!

    The eating thing is totally normal. Our kids eat everything that isn't nailed down! Not only did they need to catch up on weight but they are active teens so they eat more than I ever imagined possible! (that's all of them, not just the Ukies.)

    praying for a safe and uneventful journey home!
    love and blessings,
    Wendy for the Webb Clan

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  5. Hi guys,
    Just caught up on the blog. We went to Gatlinburg last week and then had more computer problems when I got home. AT&T came today and installed a new modem so we'll see what happens.
    Apparently I need a new router too. Always something.
    I am so happy for all of you and know how anxious you are to get home and get settled back into your lives. It is wonderful hearing how excited Elona is too. She will adjust so well to her new life and her new brother. I bet
    Ben is hardly able to contain himself.
    Robbin keeps us informed too which is great.
    I agree you have had a lot of support both there and at home. Family and friends do make a huge difference.
    Will be waiting to hear when you are on the plane and headed home.
    Travel safe.
    Jim and Sandy

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